If you’re looking for “tidings of comfort and joy” this Christmas, you won’t find them at a shopping mall. The noise, the crowds, the race for the last Zhu Zhu Pet . . . it’s all about as comforting and joyful as a trip to the dentist. Here are a few ideas to get you out of the mall and into the true spirit of the season this year:• Keep a running gift list. Encourage kids (and adults too) to keep a list of gift ideas all year long. This can tame the holiday “gimmes” and help kids make better choices about what’s on their list and why.
• Shop early. Challenge your family to finish their Christmas shopping before December 1. This simple act can deal a real blow to holiday stress. It also gives you extra family time to start meaningful new traditions like hosting a caroling party or helping at a local shelter or nonprofit ministry.
• Shop virtually. Avoid the malls entirely by shopping online. Take advantage of free shipping offers and easy price comparisons to save money and time.
• Don’t shop at all. This year, consider having a “handmade Christmas.” Check out the Internet or your local library for unique gift items that even the craft-challenged can make. It’s guaranteed to be a Christmas your family will never forget.

